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We were still very much in a training period, but it was hinted that a collar might be in my future. So I did what any good sub would do and I collaring a sub until my fingers practically fell off. That seemed pretty extreme. For the modern couple, the simplest way to describe the meaning of a collar is that it ifies the agreement of power exchange for a prescribed amount of time. It could be for the duration of an evening or for an open-ended relationship, or for a lifetime. I wish random men in the grocery store would observe that policy when they see my collar.
This is a collar that you wear for a scene. Play collars include posture collars like this. Image via Stockroom. This is a collar that is meant to be worn during the day. When giving the collar to the sub, the Dom should clarify what it means and what strings are attached, and always keep the sub updated on any changing expectations or conditions of their arrangement.
Day collars can be more low-key, like this o-ring collar. Image via Kolby Brianne. This could be a necklace maybe with a subtle padlocka tattoo for the more extreme amongst usor even the vanilla version of a collar: an engagement ring. A necklace can serve as a camo collar. Image via Laura Lombardi. So how do you know if a collar is right for your relationship?
In my opinion, a collar should remain a symbol of reverence. Reverence for your relationship, for your commitment, for the world you and your partner have created with your dynamic. Follow on IG: askasub Follow on Twitter:. Legacy and mainstream media has failed women, trans and nonbinary people.
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