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I did not expect that before the workshop, so after I came home, I started searching for more how-to information about erotic and pleasantly painful biting to see what else I had missed so far. So we also need information about biting at that level of intensity.

I also found a small handful of short comments on FetLife discussions with a snippet or two about biting technique and safety, but not a single comprehensive how-to post.

Biting bdsm

I have to say, I did not expect thateither. How come so many of us enjoy biting from anywhere between a gentle nibble and a hearty chomp, yet no one besides that one sex blogger has written up a basic manual with information about how to bite safely or as safely as you and your partner s agree to biting bdsm and pleasurably? Whatever the reason for that lack of online educational content about biting, I believe we absolutely need more than a single blog post to spread the information about different ways to combine the teeth from one person with the body of another person or multiple people on either side, if you play in teams of more than two to create pleasure and consensual pain.

We need more than a single blog post to provide input about the potential risks involved so people can make educated choices about the kind of biting they want to engage in. Any errors or omissions in representing the original workshop content are my own. The first thing that needs to be said about biting is that we tend to massively underestimate the strength of our jaws and the pain they can inflict as a result.

In fact, the jaw muscle masseter is the strongest muscle of the human body based on its weight and can apply a force up to 25 kilograms 55 pounds with the incisors front teeth and up to Try biting your own arm in different ways more details about this below to see how it feels and compare the intensity of the sensation to the marks you leave. So, where can we apply that force? Places that are nicely padded and therefore often good for biting with more force are the shoulders and upper back, the upper chest and breasts, the back of the neck, the upper arms, the biting bdsm, hips, inner thighs, and the pubic mound.

If in doubt, start with a low intensity of bite and increase it slowly.

Biting bdsm

Places that are more suited to lighter nibbles or at least more superficial bites and grazing than full-on, forceful chomps are the face and ears, hands and wrists, feet and ankles, any kind of genitals, and anywhere else with big blood vessels especially arteriestendons, nerves, or bones close to the surface of the skin.

While arms and legs are generally fairly safe places to bite, there are nerves running along the inside of the upper arm and down the middle of the back of the knee that can be damaged with a bite in that area. As the receiving partner, communicate any sudden, intense pain at the site of biting bdsm bite, tingling or numbness in your limbs towards the hands or feet.

As the biter, stop the bite immediately if your partner indicates such sensations. Also, the cartilage in the ears and nose is rather easy to bite through, so proceed with caution. The neck and throat also have a lot of vulnerable parts. The most mundane risk is the strong discomfort that usually comes with being bitten into the tendons along the sides of the neck. And now we need to get very serious for a few minutes. Most of the time, the person will regain consciousness on their own after a similar time period if not, call an ambulance. However, pressure in that area can also activate the carotid sinus reflex and cause a drop in blood pressure and even cardiac arrest death.

If you bite into the front of the throat, you can compress and potentially damage the trachea windpipe and larynx voice box. If you want to bite an area of skin that is hairybe aware that you can accidentally rip out some of the hair during a bite, which of course adds a different kind of pain to the experience. What factors can change the sensation and intensity of a bite? And finally, there are some factors that can influence how much or how little of a bruise develops. However, these are generalizations, and your partner may have different ways of expressing how they are.

So talk about this to make sure you read them right. Depth and force intensity of the bite. Do you just pick up a tiny bit of skin between your front or canine teeth to produce a fairly superficial bite that concentrates in a single, painful point? Do you pinch and hold up a roll of skin with your fingers so you can control the placement of your bite more easily?

Do you lightly nibble a path from their neck to their chest, from their calves to their genitals, along their arms to their shoulder, or across their backs? Do you find a well-padded spot with no nerves or tendons beneath and chomp down hard, perhaps when either of biting bdsm is nearing orgasm? And do you bite a specific spot just once or do you return to it and bite it again, thus increasing the pain and the chance of bruising? All of these techniques create different sensations, and I suggest you try them out on yourself if you can so you get an idea how they compare to each other.

Speed and duration of the bite and its release. Do you apply a lot of force at once to slightly shock your partner and get their adrenaline going? Or do you find a nice spot to bite and slowly, slowly close down your jaw with ever increasing force until your partner is purring in masochistic delight?

This makes the blood rush back into the area that has been compressed by your teeth and creates an additional pain. Or do you release the pressure very slowly, so the blood can return more gradually? Pulling and twisting. If you have pointy canines or other teeth with sharp edges, you may want to either loosen the pressure or accept the risk in agreement with your partner that you may draw blood when doing this. Do you like to add sucking to your biting and almost certainly create some hickeys which really is just another word for a bruise?

Touching the bitten area afterwards. Do you blow cool air onto the area you just bit into to switch between pain and tenderness? This can either increase or lessen the pain, so check in with your partner to find out how it feels to them. Do you tap or rub the area of the bite or press into it? Do you and your partner like biting as a way to slowly add some pain to your initial kissing and licking and to increase the heat of your encounter?

Do you like biting or being bitten as you approach orgasm to give you that last push over the edge? Or do you treat biting as a whole scene by itself and maybe just add a biting bdsm of stroking or gentle slapping or squeezing to warm up the skin before you bring out the teeth?

Muscle tension. Try biting bdsm down to relax the calf muscles and any other muscle that tenses up when you stand. Bending or stretching out a limb tenses and relaxes different kinds of muscles and the related bits of skinso you can also experiment with that. The sensation of a bite into a tensed-up muscle or a relaxed one also feels different, so you can play around with that to increase or decrease the intensity of the pain.

This means you can move the respective body part or slap it or rub it to get the blood flowing to where you want to bite later. If in doubt, ask your partner what they prefer. Certain illnesses such as celiac disease, anemia iron deficiencyEhlers-Danlos Syndrome, hemophilia, and others can also make it more likely that there will be bruises. Many people enjoy making or having marks, so you can use some of these techniques to help with biting bdsm. Of course, there can be a lot of individual variation in what you or your partner like on any given day or in general.

What if you accidentally hurt your partner more intensely than you plannedbecause you underestimated your jaw strength or hit a nerve or tendon at a painful angle? Apparently, our nervous systems can only process so much pain at the same time, so by dividing its attention this way, you decrease the intensity of the pain your partner feels.

When biting someone, for example on the upper arm, you may accidentally bite through a blood vessel which will then burst without breaking the skin. Biting bdsm you accidentally punctured the skin and drew blooddisinfect the wound immediately or at least rinse it with water. Human saliva contains a massive of potentially infectious bacteria, so a human bite is a lot more risky than a dog bite in terms of infection. If you created more bruises than desiredyou can try applying cold by way of a cool pack, a bag of ice cubes or frozen vegetables wrapped in a towel or scarf up to ten minutes at a time, then take a breakresting and raising the area if possibleand refraining from adding further pressure including massages.

The first thing you may want to make sure of before you bite someone is that you actually like their smell. If you want to check how someone smells as a person below any scented products they may use, biting bdsm sniffing them behind the ear, in the biting bdsm right beside their nose and below their eyes, or at the inside of their elbow. Related to that is the question of taste. You can test this on yourself: Just apply a bit of the product in an area you can reach with your mouth, let it dry, and give it a lick.

As the biter, you may find that a tongue piercing can be uncomfortable when you bite in a way that fills up your whole mouth. And finally: know your teeth! Do your teeth have any sharp edges or chips? Do you have any teeth that are noticeably pointy? If your teeth are in any way crooked or overlapping, that may also affect how your bite lands and whether there is any extra pressure in a specific area. If in doubt, try biting yourself to check. Braces will also biting bdsm an effect on how your biting feels.

Alright, this concludes this collection of pretty much everything I know about biting at this point in time! Before I leave you for today, I would like to remind you once again that individual differences are always more important than generalizations when it comes to how a particular technique feels and what kind of pain or sensation it creates. So please take this post as a starting point for your own explorations and further research and adjust things according to your needs and those of your partner s.

For example, some people will want to carefully avoid any chance of breaking the skin, while others may want to bite until it bleeds on purpose. Listen to your gut and your brain about the level of risk that you feel okay with, inform your partner of your boundaries, and accept theirs. And now: happy biting and being bitten! I hear Halloween season with all its vampires and werewolves on the prowl is particularly inspiring for someā€¦.

My point still stands, though: Information about biting technique and risk assessment are very hard to find, compared to information about the many kinds of impact play and other pain-inducing activities. If you, dear reader, know of such a source, please let me know where I can find it. And exchanges like this one. You are commenting using your WordPress.

You are commenting using your Google. You are commenting using your Twitter. You are commenting using your Facebook. Notify me of new comments via. Notify me of new posts via. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Let the notes begin. Places: Where to bite and what risks to be aware of So, where can we apply that force?

Biting bdsm

There are a few areas that need particular caution. Technique: How to bite and how to scale the pain and bruising What factors can change the sensation and intensity of a bite? Troubleshooting: What if something goes wrong? Other considerations: What else to think of when biting bdsm have the intention to bite The first thing you may want to make sure of before you bite someone is that you actually like their smell.

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